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   The Book - "So Good It Hurts"



Title: So Good It Hurts
ISBN: 0-9744769-1-9
Price: $14.95 (plus S&H )

In 1996, I decided that I had gone through enough drama. The men with whom I was involving myself simply weren’t worth the pain. I wanted something different, and while “different” just happened to be knocking at my door, I needed to ready myself before I could answer that door.

I know that I’m not alone in my quest to find a relationship with a man who loves, respects, and honors me, honors my womanliness, while at the same time he protects and nurtures me and tends to my spiritual, intellectual, and physical needs. Is there such a man or am I asking for too much? I asked this question all those years ago, and the answers I have found constitute this book.

No pain in my life has ever been more real than the pain I felt for this man. Interestingly, it was during that time that I witnessed, in my heart, the most sincere love imaginable — God’s love. It somehow made perfect sense that God would love me in my weakest moment, my lowest time, and it occurred to me that perhaps I had been reaching out in the wrong direction for love. I recognized that, while I was calling out to a man, I should have been calling out to God. I have written this book for anyone out who knows pain in the name of love, the kind of pain that fills you from the top of your head to the bottom of your feet. Some say pain is love. Others say God is love. What do you think?

 

Chapters Headings and Excerpts
    PART ONE — PAIN
  • Chapter 1 Definition of a Man
  • Chapter 2 Playing with Fire
  • Chapter 3 Freakin’ and Creepin’
  • Chapter 4 Love Don’t Live Here
  • Chapter 5 Closure Conversation
  • Chapter 6 Pregnant by Who?
  • Chapter 7 Making it Through
    PART TWO — FIGHT
  • Chapter 8 Prize or Not?
  • Chapter 9 Baby Momma Drama
  • Chapter 10 Resilient but Human
  • Chapter 11 Checklist
  • Chapter 12 Why NOT Me?
    PART THREE – LOVE
  • Chapter 13 Music was My First Love
  • Chapter 14 Get it Together
  • Chapter 15 Have Enough to Give
  • Chapter 16 Forgive but Never Forget
  • Chapter 17 You Don’t Know Me
  • Chapter 18 In the Meantime